Trust In Marriage

There are two kinds of relationship problems within every marriage:

  • Perpetual
  • Solvable

Perpetual means the problem has rechargeable batteries and never seems to go away. Solvable means it can be dealt with if you have the skills. Do any of these typical perpetual problems sound familiar?

  1. Cindy wants a baby. Dave doesn’t, he’s not ready yet. In fact, he’s not sure he’ll ever be ready.
  2. Bucky wants sex more often than Misty.
  3. Tom doesn’t help around the house and seems almost clueless about how things get done. When Sue brings up the subject, the feelings get tense.
  4. Nancy wants to raise the children Christian.Bill is agnostic and doesn’t see the need for religion.
  5. Jack is very strict with the children, especially the oldest boy. Barb is concerned he is too hard but Jack thinks his approach is just right.

Having a perpetual relationship problem in your marriage is not the end of the world. In fact, contrary to many therapists, you are not required to resolve every conflict. Knowing how to discuss it, however, is paramount. Trust in Marriage helps you learn how to argue without contention and disaster between you and your loved one. Having a relationship problem is the norm. Never arguing would be considered a little different, and too often it’s because there really is a relationship problem, both are too scared to talk.

To learn more about Trust In Marriage, click the GET STARTED button at the bottom. There is no cost or obligation. This will direct you to a series of videos and lessons.

It’s one thing to disagree, but it’s a disaster when you can’t talk about it. Learning to cope with differences in the marriage is critical to your happiness. Solvable relationship problems are those that seem to hit an impasse. With a little understanding inserted into the relationship, a viable solution each spouse could accept would eventually surface. Learning to resolve these kinds of relationship problems is frustrating because marriage manuals have techniques that are difficult to master. Listening is a difficult skill.
I have developed a system that teaches you the skill of Listening in a short time if you are willing to practice. What does that mean? How long would it take you to have 50 conversations with friends and co-workers? Your answer here __________! That’s how long it will take to see results.
While marriage counseling works great for some couples, coaching is a different approach. Coaching works on the system of happiness and marriage. They each (marriage and happiness) carry a set of skills required for operation. While therapy is often focused on what happened, coaching focuses on the future. Coaching is a business approach to marital happiness.
It seems husbands prefer the learning environment and being held accountable for specific actions that are practiced. These actions are techniques used in your relationship. Using the Internet as your coach will give the ability to review the lessons and obtain another level of understanding.

Coaching carries a strong level of accountability and you focus on changing the behavior by understanding the principles that drive behavior. I’ve prepared some videos and content on different aspects of coaching and marriage to give you greater clarity to determine if this approach works for you.

Trust In Marriage is a system designed to address your relationship problems. Click here for a short video and Instant Access to more on resolving perpetual and solvable problems.

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Trust In Marriage was created by Richard P. Himmer and is a product of PyrBlu, Inc. Workshops can be conducted anywhere in the Puget Sound, including Seattle, Bellevue, Tacoma, Olympia, and Vancouver. One on one coaching is conducted in person or via webinar. Contact us for more information.